Signs of Catfishing
If you often interact with people online, it’s crucial to keep an eye out for spammers. The following are some red flags to look out for that might mean you’re being catfished:
They Avoid Showing Their Face
Catfishers almost usually go to great lengths to conceal their genuine physical characteristics. This includes persistently declining phone calls, video chats, and any in-person interactions. They frequently come up with reasons not to meet in person or communicate by video or audio, especially after engaging in extensive online communication. I’m bashful, my computer is damaged, I have an appointment and can’t chat, etc. They could be utilizing a small amount of stolen images from another online profile, so they won’t transmit any candid pictures, even in-the-moment selfies. There may be a risk that they are a catfish if they are unable to submit any further images beyond those on their social media or dating site.
They Ask for Money
They’ve asked you for money, which is the million-dollar question. They frequently imply the question by talking about a hardship or a family member who needs financial assistance rather than directly asking it. Don’t fall for these tricks that aim to persuade you to lower your guard! Any online stranger who requests money from you raises a HUGE red flag and is nearly usually a fraudster.
Their Online Accounts Don’t Have Many Friends or Interactions
It’s likely a false profile if you’ve been communicating with someone online for a time but find that their social media page has almost no activity or followers.
Their Story Seems Too Good to Be True
Catfish will frequently invent improbable tales to match your life. To appear more appealing, they can make up falsehoods like having high-paying occupations or wealthy families, or they might make up tales intended to make you feel bad for them. In any event, follow your instincts: if anything seems a little too wonderful to be true or a little too unbelievable to be real, it probably is.
They are EXTREMELY romantic right away
Everyone enjoys being desired, but a catfish may “lovebomb” you, or in other words, inundate you with messages of love at first that seem a little excessive. They can try to convince you to commit to a relationship with them after only a few days or even a few weeks in an effort to “fast-forward” the connection.
Never transmit any graphic or nude images to strangers online since they could be used as blackmail in the future.
